Well if that girl is named Ketina, there is a lot. Ketina is a belligerent, manipulative, sociopathic, amoral, immature egotist. She also has a penchance for stealing food, school supplies and other small items from around the house. In fact, a bike lock had to be put on the fridge to keep her out. She is also a perpetual liar and resists any form of home based authority.
Ketina also frequently threatens family members (and long term guest) with physical violence and/or death (stabbing, "i'm going to murder you", etc). She is not too kind to Izzy the dog either. You hear enough of that and eventually you start to take it personally. She is the reason why the knives, matches, etc got locked outside in a room that she doesn't have a key for.
Ketina is also delusional. She thinks that someday she will be this huge star from American Idol. The problem is that Izzy has better tonal quality than her (and Izzy is a dog).
i should probably mention that she is adopted.
If you believe psychobabble, the problems with this monster can be traced back to in utero exposure to methamphetamines and numerous potential issues with her birth mother from a young age (abandonment, starvation, etc). Personally i view psychiatry as a form a charlatanism with more crap than can be found in a Porta-Potty. It could just be that she is a witch (with a B).
Apparently, since she had been adopted years ago, she always had a predilection to bad behavior. You know the basics - stealing stuff, being obstinate, etc. However, recently her behavior has taken a turn for the much worse - at times bordering on criminal. She is more belligerent than ever, frequently yells, lies and started breaking stuff. What kind of stuff you may ask...
Things have been getting worse as time goes on. Maybe it temporarily peaked when she grabbed a knife and started menacing people with it (one of them was me) - then she stabbed the couch with a knife. That resulted in a "vacation" for a week or two. The unfortunate thing is that she views these trips (and there was a week long one for her bedroom window too) as vacations. In other words, she feels rewarded for being bad.
The psychiatrists/therapists play the role of enabler in this scenario - giving her rewards for bad behavior. She loves the attention. None of their suggested ideas do any good (nor will they ever). i think part of the reason she steals is so she can get caught - and fake/overplay her reaction (just so she can convince herself it is not her fault). If anyone wonders why she seems to be left out of family activities, spend a month or so with her and you will get a feeling of why.
Just this week she has told people "to go f themselves", hit someone with an orange, slapped/hit someone, invaded someone's personal space repeatedly, tried to order people around, yelled at people - and that was just me. She has also been stealing food with annoying regularity (or maybe increasing frequency) and acting like a jerk.
Now i hear that someone wants to take her for a while. First of all, i have to say that that person has a major screw loose. Ketina is a vicious monster who can be contained for a while, but only while it suits her purposes. She has serious mother "hate" issues. Apparently, anyone who takes a role of authority over her is in for a rude awakening. She will hit, she will steal, she will break stuff and who knows how far she will take it. It may very well be their funeral (not in a metaphorical sense).
i guess i can find solace in the fact that if she doesn't change her attitude/behavior that she will eventually die miserable and alone in the gutter, probably a crack whore like her birth mother.
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